I met Scott about a month ago, he was sitting in his wheelchair and I asked him what had happened.
4 year previously he had had a massive stroke at only 49 years old.
He is the same age as me so you look and think "how would I feel if I got trapped physically in my own body?
100% Dependent on others.
As someone who has strived to be totally independent, it looked to me like my worst nightmare.
But as a healer I am aware of the amazing regeneration capacity of the body.
I looked at him and wondered what intensive physio, releasing, visualising, live nutrition could do for this guy.
He then said he was looking for someone to help him. To give an overview of his holistic health, outlining all the things I have just mentioned above.
So I told him my cv and said lets meet and chat, see if it will work for both of us.
I immediately recommended The Fortina. They have the most amazing facilities and I know he needs way more rehab.
He needs to have hope, he needs to believe and he needs to work to get the body to heal and give him a level of independence.
He need live nutrition, positive vibes, to feel trust and connection to a higher power.
He needs to let go all of the hurts and disappointments of the past, the negative cellular images he has inherited and all wanting control, security approval, separation and oneness.
When that happens his immune system can get full power back on the job it does best when we get out the road.......returning to balance...healing.
The Law of Attraction is a funny thing. Because of the time lapse between us putting out the intention and actually getting the thing often I forget all about it.
I have doggedly studied, read, learned, asked for the secret of healing. Why does you immune system let you down?
This has lead me to learn a ton of valuable therapies but one word keeps cropping up.....simple.
The Sedona Method is simple, so is EFT and all the other energy therapies I do are actually about 1 thing. Intention.
When I decided to create a healing plan that was free so that I could send it to people for free, I realised it was all about living within the laws of Nature. Simple.
Then I read Ishmael, incredible book that every human should read. What are we doing? Seriously peeps destroying our awe inspiring home, out planet, our Mother Earth. We are destroying our cells and ourselves.
I usually say at my workshops that I like working with people who are incurable. Because there is no such thing.
That just means we don't know how to cure you. There is no pill to cure you. They never tell you all the things that YOU could do.
They never address what has happened in your life, your diet, your enviroment internally and externally.
Healing is not something that anyone can do to you. You are the energy system, its your minds that got you here, its you that can heal yourself.
We are a vibrating bundle of cells.
We are an energy system, electrical in nature. More electrical than chemical but one affects the other.
I have never believed in tests, that is controversial I know but taking a snapshot of your energy system, a second in time and then saying that's your fate right there, is just crazy.
You can change your energy system and if you had a hundred tests they would all tell you something different.
Then there is the other scary part. The observer changes the experiment. This is not taken into account when we go "looking" for trouble. For the science of this see here
You may be finding things that were not meant to be found.
Our system is bonkers in my eyes and cruel beyond belief. It's terrifying at times what you get told. I sat with my dad as the doctor pulled up the picture of his lungs, looked at him sadly and shot the bullet. You are going to die.
It weird sitting in a line, me, my dad, my brother. All in a line waiting for this woman who is about to deliver your fate.
Weird and ludicrous. I have never liked or believed a lot of the shit grown ups say.
She was amazing. She also knew it was not a good idea to tell him but she had to. She then went on to say with a good positive attitude he could be here for a while. She even said "if your wife had not made you come for this xray you would never know you had this." She did not want to tell him I could feel it, but she had to, thats her job.
I said to him "you are a scientist, you know you can change energy!". But he did not believe me. He chose to get radiation and I had to sit and watch him slowly die.
Now he may well have died anyway. That is not the point, the point is the fear. Doing that to an 82 year old man is cruel and senseless. He changed from that second on.
The point is the fear and the other point is that fear kills the cells in the body.
Fear kills the body.
If you have had or get a terrifying diagnosis or prognosis it is a good idea not to believe it.
But this is easier said than done.
But there is one thing I can 100% guarantee I can help you with.
Letting go of the fear.
Take the fear right out of it. Get into your heart and see what is the right thing for you. Get away from the weight of others opinions and beliefs and get inside to your truth.
Then the other day I spoke to someone who has been told they are going to die, soon.
I felt immediately that did not need to happen. More bullshit from grown ups.
Now I cannot guarantee who lives and dies, but I can guarantee to help you let go of all fear about it, whatever way it goes.
Personally I am quite excited about it, I have a lot of great friends up there, or down there now.
We are all going to die. Lets not ruin the time we have left being in fear.
So let go of the fear and put your trust in something higher, it's way more fun.
Then I was listening as I do every morning to the latest healing modalities from some lists I am on. The Healing codes.
I had heard about it before and had tried it on a youtube video and I felt the energy. Then I forgot about it.
This time I get a stronger feeling. I bought the book on my kindle. WOW.
All source of disease is stress in the body. Now I know that already. But the book explains it scientifically, how they have measured not just this technique but others too and it all comes from the heart. I knew that too.
Last week I started doing the generic one I picked up on youtube. The pain in my shoulder and back pretty much went away.
So now I am getting excited. I bought the codes and did my first day yesterday.
So watch this space. I am healing all hurts etc from the past. It works the frequencies of the cellular memory. The old programmes, events from the past that are stored there.
When you let go of the negative frequencies, the body can heal itself.
Is this the answer I have been waiting for?
I certainly hope so.
Watch this space.
It is no secret I am 100% against the pharmaceutical companies.
The root cause of most if not all dis ease is stress and drugs will never address the root cause. Neither will cutting and burning.
I believe most people could have much better results with natural therapies and energy work, time and love.
But I also believe the human body has an incredible ability for regeneration when we understand the power of the mind.
The mind is the body and vice versa. We have been brought up to believe that the mind and all that stuff in it is in our head, contained in our brain and it is not.
My uncle had a stroke over 10 years ago and when I saw him at first I was devastated. He was in a hoist and completely paralysed. The recovery he made was remarkable and recently when I visited he was making his bed, slowly but doing it anyway. Even his speech seemed better to me after all this time. I wondered to myself how much better he could have been with more intensive rehab, in every area? Just a passing thought. Or so I thought.
Then a very interesting thing happened last week.
I bumped into a man in a wheelchair at my fave little bar in Sliema, Marios.
I asked him what had happened and he told me he had a stroke 4 years previously.
He is the same age as me. Clearly one side was fairly drastically affected but as I am aware how much the body can regenerate I was interested in what he had been doing. If he was this disabled after 4 years what had he been like at first?
He said to me "I am looking for someone to help me with my overall health, emotions, spiritual, nutrition, exercise etc.
I was laughing inside obviously as I thought whats the chances of him meeting someone like that in Marios. Me.
My healing plan looks at a human being as a whole. Connection to the planet, alignment with nature, nutrition, genes, exercise and ofcourse emotions and stress.
So I said lets meet next week and have a chat about options.
He is staying in a hospital in Sliema that specialises in replacements, hips and knees. Nice, light place where he gets 24 hour care.
So I went there yesterday to see what could be done.
I had already been thinking get him to the Fortina as they have state of the art equipment there and a thalasso pool for hydrotherapy. They also have vibration training that is very helpful for stroke victims as you can train muscle without going through a range of movement.
I could also help him choose live foods there as they have such brilliant restaurants and I know we can make sure he
gets the food that will help the body heal. Nutrition helps the body to heal too.
So that would be food and exercise organised. I would like him to get to a place where he can do some exercise himself.
He is super keen to get in the water.
So I called the physio there to discuss options on that front and I am waiting to hear back.
So the physical has to be addressed. Getting him more independent in terms of being able to get up and down.
What I do is simple. Get the focus, the mind, on what you want. How you would LOVE it to be.
Then release anything that could possibly stop you getting it.
Now this is where it gets funny. Because you will have everyone and there granny telling what is and what is not possible. Everyone has a point of view on what you are capable of, including yourself. My job is to get you to break through all the concepts and labels and truly put your heart where it would love to be, without limits. I have to get you to believe you can have, be, see, do ANYTHING you want.
People will tell you and me to be realistic.
You create your reality and never, ever live anyone elses, unless it sounds better than yours of course.
It sounds simple but it means you have to look at the emotions, the cell memories, the attachments, beliefs and view of the world and your place in it.
The carer helped Scott, that's his name, into his bed.
I felt intense compassion looking at him. He has a great sense of humour and covers his tracks well but the reality of having zero independence in a foreign country hit home on me. He lost both his parents last year. He lost one brother to aids and his other one and sister are both in the States.
His only saving grace is that he can afford to get care of a higher standard than most of us would. But this too can lead to people abusing your need and being there for the wrong reasons.
The other thing I am acutely aware of is will he follow the plan? This is where most people fall down not matter how much they want what they say they want. Change needs to occur and change can be stressful even when you are well.
Then day after day you need to put in the repetition, the practise and follow the rituals.
Then you need to keep the faith and patience, 2 other areas that can be a challenge for most of us.
But what the hell we have to try right?
He needs help to sort all of this out and it is easy for me to coordinate this.
He has also said we can blog and video his progress so I will be starting a personal blog for him and his journey.
A day in a wheelchair in Malta!
I have pushed a buggy on the pavements in Malta and I have worn shoes with a heel and that was bad enough!
Watch this space guys and wish us luck.